Monday, September 18, 2006

I thought..but could'nt understand

"Dont let someone become a priority in your life when you are just an option in thier life"

I thought a lot over this SMS msg. But could'nt even decipher the meaning.
How the hell would you know that when you are blinded with love ?
The uncertainities,the undercurrents are the name of the game..But give your full heart...
Love as if there is no tommorow..because your heart is worth it..
But there will be many meanings which nobody will understand even if they put all thier reasoning to action.Or else..they simply don't want to understand..
If we understand everything then what is the fun in living ?

21 Comments:

Blogger b v n said...

Oh...there is no reasoning...no logic...just the 'high'...and yeah its exhausting at times :)

11:34 AM  
Blogger Dreamer said...

Good question!
"How the hell would you know that when you are blinded with love ?"
:-)

Btw, Nice to meet another dreamer.. :-)

Thanks for dropping by, buddy..

Copying with the reference to the original URL may be permitted ;-)

8:28 AM  
Blogger Known Stranger said...

i fell in love with your message. believe me fell in love

DOnt let some one rule your emotions but you rule theirs

dont let you become priority but make your self a priority to them.

these are my old statments to my friends who are dieing for their woman or man.

photos were just a gap filling posts when i am running short of thoughts to pin it poetical. ALways the page's priority is for scribbling... afor a change photos.

arent they poetic - i had shot those photos..

5:59 PM  
Blogger clash said...

U mean "love" in general? Or loving someone of opposite sex? Or may be "loving someone of the same sex" :D

2:39 AM  
Blogger neermathalam said...

@bvn
Danks for understanding
@love
Get well soon
@dreamer
Welcome 2 my lighthouse..thanks for lettin me..copy..;)
@poet
I dont dare to say that ur pics are not poetic but for sure ur have a stronger pen than ur pic..
one of my best friend always say that i write dreadful poems and paint beautiful pics..as a matter of fact i ahve not painted anything last 1-2 years.When one passion takes over the other one just sets..so I jus dont liek to encourage yur photos..bcse i jus lov ur poems..;)
@clash
Welcome 2 my lighthouse.
loving someone of opposite sex..was that i refered but it can be true if it is 'general' love,gay love or even in case of loving ur tomy..If ur tomy is priority is mating with neighbour's rani it wont..come and sit on ur lap..;)

and u hav a beautiful blog..thought provoking articles..

6:02 AM  
Blogger starry said...

I think that quote makes a lot of sense. If you are not important in the other persons life then maybe making that person a priority in your life may be in vain, especially if you are looking for reciprocity.

8:37 AM  
Blogger How do we know said...

You know, one would have agreed with the sms, but your one line completely changed the perspective. Does that mean that we can stop ourselves from loving a person completely?

Maybe not. The feeling is natural and cannot be helped. But the expectations.. ? Maybe, to love should be its own reward. Then, no one will be a priority or an option.. just a person to love.

12:47 PM  
Blogger the sunflower said...

Dont let someone become a priority in your life when you are just an option in thier life

easy to prophess.... tough to execute...

1:41 AM  
Blogger neermathalam said...

@starry...
Shall i agree withu or disagree.. i dunno
@hw do we no
u give letters to my mind..danks..
@sun..
true dear..

7:05 AM  
Blogger Schrodingers cat said...

haha...the problem is in your viewpoint that love can be channelised only towards one person. I agree with you on love is blind , give your full heart and love as if there is no tommorow...but not towards a single entity...love everything around you with the same intensity. Love towards a single person can bring up expectations to sustain it...so love everything and everyone out of gratitude and all the confusions should melt away. But thats just me and I might be wrong.

M.

2:12 PM  
Blogger ~*. D E E P A .* ~ said...

@ ur reply on ur prev post :
It was indeed abt my friend -
Well , you are your best friend .. so , again it comes back to the fact .. was it abt you ?

If we understand everything then what is the fun in living ?:
True in a way

10:53 PM  
Blogger neermathalam said...

@Scat..
u philo is right dear...
but i bet it is not very easy...
just not very easy...

@ deepz...
I m my best friend..my imaginations are my best friend rather..
It is not about me..because..at least in my dreams i sud be true to myself..it was about my 'real world' frnd.
And if something like that happens to me..i will use..'I'
instead of 'He' I m atleast that bold..
:)..
true in wat way ...?? he he....

11:22 PM  
Blogger neermathalam said...

@ammu..
ninakku eyideyayi..sthalakalavibranthiyundoo..nuu oru doubt...mail alla..nu..parangu..blogil commentuka..kollam...ethinu oru perundu..off Adikyaanuu...anyway carry on..;)

3:34 AM  
Blogger Rose said...

Agree with you COMPLETELY..

Simply enjoy the feeling as long as it lasts.. Without any questions asked.. As if there is no tomorrow..

:)

..Me

10:46 PM  
Blogger Movie Mazaa said...

I dunno why, but this post and the SMS adorning its top forces an introspection in me. Thanku so much Neer; perhaps thats what I needed most, at this point of my life!!

:)

7:07 PM  
Blogger മര്‍ത്ത്യന്‍ said...

The fun of living is knowing that much is unknown

11:00 PM  
Blogger Movie Mazaa said...

U HAVE BEEN TAGGEDDDDDDDDDDDDDD!!
:D

8:20 PM  
Blogger Alex said...

You said it!
Uncertainities becoming certainities, is when you love unconditionally!

Beautiful thoughts, aptly worded. :)

1:02 AM  
Blogger Known Stranger said...

you have beautifully said it. actualy one of my friend after a marriage on the idea of divorce hence this post

5:27 AM  
Anonymous Anonymous said...

Hello ..

Thanx for drooping on my blog & sharing a thoughtful comment...

U hv an interesting blog, covering various subjects...

Like thse lines:
"Always take decisions
which you can revisit"

Cheers ..
Roy

9:51 PM  
Blogger neermathalam said...

@alex...
thanks...but when unconditionalities are superceded by possesiveness...??? tats wats happening now...
@know...
danks..
@roy...
can u post some of ur song...tats in ur voice...

10:21 PM  

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